We believe that understanding yourself is one of the most powerful steps toward healing. The Lotus Perspective is a collection of thoughtful articles on anxiety, trauma, relationships, and emotional wellness, written to answer the questions many people quietly ask themselves every day. Whether you're considering therapy or simply looking for reliable information, we hope you'll find encouragement, clarity, and practical insight here.
The Lotus Perspective
Turn to Your Right Brain
Calming Anxiety
The Reactive Ego
Reactive Ego
Observation vs. Evaluation
Observation vs. Evaluation
Our Practiced Thoughts Become Our Truth
Practiced Thoughts, Self Awareness
Core Beliefs
Core Beliefs
Is This really Me?
Choose Your Life
You Are the Thinker of Your Thoughts
You Are the Thinker of Your Thoughts
Reticular Activating System
Reticular Activating System
Choosing a Life That Enriches You
Choices to Enrich
Vagal Tone
Vagal Tone
Emotional Addiction
Emotional Addiction
The Zeigarnik Effect
Zeigarnik Effect, Unresolved Problems, Distress
Contempt
Contempt, Predictor for Divorce
Radical Self-Acceptance
Radical Self-Acceptance
Win-Lose Relationships
Win-Lose
Going to Bed Angry
Going to Bed Angry
Pleasure First
Pleasure First
Weaponized Incompetence
Weaponized Incompetence
When to Consider Couples Therapy
Couples Therapy
Do You Know Your Partner’s Love Language?
Love Language
