We believe that understanding yourself is one of the most powerful steps toward healing. The Lotus Perspective is a collection of thoughtful articles on anxiety, trauma, relationships, and emotional wellness, written to answer the questions many people quietly ask themselves every day. Whether you're considering therapy or simply looking for reliable information, we hope you'll find encouragement, clarity, and practical insight here.
The Lotus Perspective
Contempt
Contempt, Predictor for Divorce
Radical Self-Acceptance
Radical Self-Acceptance
Win-Lose Relationships
Win-Lose
Going to Bed Angry
Going to Bed Angry
Pleasure First
Pleasure First
Weaponized Incompetence
Weaponized Incompetence
When to Consider Couples Therapy
Couples Therapy
Do You Know Your Partner’s Love Language?
Love Language
Money Talks
Financial Goals, Couple Finances
Breaking The Cycle
Breaking Cycles
Dream Together
Dream, Relationship Dreams
10 Relationship Resolutions
Couple Resolutions
Start the New Year Strong
Tune Up, New Year
A Year in Reflection
Reflection, what it’s like to be a couples therapist
Repair Attempts
Repair Attempts, Holiday Season
Overcoming Emotional Flooding
Emotional Flooding
The Danger of Assumptions
Assumptions, holidays
The Power of "I" Statements
“I” Statements, Focus on you
Focusing on the Situation, Not Your Partner
Focusing On The Situation, Not Your Partner
Unmet Needs Leads to Resentment
Unmet Needs, Resentment
